My comments are still going directly to spam of users who haven’t manually unflagged my comment in WP admin-comments-spam. Askimet said they couldn’t find a problem, so I gave up. I do try to connect with all of the people I follow, so if you haven’t gotten a comment from me in a while and haven’t despammed me in the past, and if I haven’t directly harassed you about my comments on your blog not showing up, you might very well have something from me in there. It’s like finding a $5 bill when you clean out your closet, but not as exciting. This happens to even the most innocent bloggers, so it is good to check your comment spam periodically if you’re into the whole social part of blogging.